Good sex is hot sex, and sometimes even in the literal sense of the word. Not so long ago, many people thought wax play was perverted and peculiar to BDSM culture, but now the opinion is changing to a more positive one. You will find out how to play with wax properly next!
WAXING AND BDSM ARE INSEPARABLE, AREN’T THEY?
Yes and no. There are definitely many fans of “harder” sex who enjoy playing with candles and hot wax. You’re probably hardly surprised by this fact, because such games can be perfectly integrated into a session of dominance and submission. Hot candle wax causes exactly the kind of sweet pain on the skin that many masochists love, and that excites sadists.
However, there are also S&M followers and fetishists who have absolutely nothing to do with playing with wax and engage in completely different practices. But there are also a growing number of people who incorporate waxing into their “normal” eroticism. After all, it is not forbidden to enjoy sweet pain without submission and domination. How nice that the barriers in people’s minds are finally disappearing.
WHICH CANDLES ARE SUITABLE FOR PLAYING WITH HOT WAX?
At first glance, it seems easy to buy the key object of the game – a candle. After all, it is available in every store. But candles from the supermarket should be used only for their intended purpose! The reason is easy to explain: the commercially available candles are very hot when burning, and the wax becomes very hot. If you drip it on your bare skin, you can get real burns.
Even cemetery candles, which are sometimes recommended for waxing games, should be used with special care. Their melting point is not as high as other candles. Nevertheless, they are still relatively hot and therefore not suitable for beginners.
It is better to splurge a little and buy candles designed specifically for erotic adventure. They consist of a special wax mixture with a low melting point. This wax has a twofold effect on the skin: first, its warmth creates a stimulating sensation. Secondly, it leaves a nice oily film. Because of this, playing with hot wax can easily be transformed into an erotic massage.
NEVER PLAY WITH WAX WITHOUT PREPARATION!
If you have bought the right candles, don’t be in a hurry to start. Be sure to read the following:
1. pay attention to the surface.
If you’ve ever tried to clean regular wax off a carpet or clothing, you probably know that it’s not easy. So underneath, lay a sheet or bedspread made of a non-sensitive material. There are special lacquered sheets for unusual games. They look vicious and are not afraid of wax and oil stains.
2. Shave areas of skin and apply cream if necessary
Special massage wax can cause body hair to stick together and can only be removed with great effort. Therefore it is worth shaving the areas of the skin on which the wax will drip in advance. If the skin is irritated during shaving, it is better to exclude these parts of the body from the “geography” of play. Preliminary rubbing of the cream into the skin helps to remove traces of wax.
3. Do the first test on less sensitive skin areas
The skin in erogenous areas is thin and extremely sensitive. This is why these areas of skin should never be exposed to hot substances. Test the heat first on less sensitive areas, such as the inside of your hands. After that, you’ll be able to assess how far you want to go.
4. Forbidden areas remain forbidden
Holes in the body and all mucous membranes are taboo, of course, because they can become very inflamed from hot wax. Also, respect the areas that your partner declares forbidden. After all, everyone has their own body parts that they would rather not let anyone go into.
5. No without absolute trust!
This is especially true when playing with hot wax in the context of BDSM: please never engage in it without absolute trust! Otherwise, the process can cause rejection and frustration. Or even injury.
HOW DOES THE GAME GO?
Imagination has no limits. If you like tying your partner up before the game, and he’s excited about it too, you’re both guaranteed positive emotions. The blindfold makes the process even more attractive, because it provides an exciting effect of surprise. Maybe you should get some ice cubes to add even more fun.
Basically, you can drip wax on all areas of the body that are not among the aforementioned forbidden areas. Your nipples are especially popular, as well as your arms, legs, buttocks, vulva or penis. Individual drops feel like small jabs, and more wax applied to a larger area increases the pain.
Regardless of whether you use one or more candles: with a little practice, you can paint real works of art on your partner’s skin.
By the way, the cooled wax can be removed quite easily under a cool shower. Lovers of painful sensations can knock down the wax with a whip.