Binding or bondage games can open you up to a whole new facet of lovemaking. Below we will tell you how to add erotic bondage games to your repertoire.
Completely surrendering to your partner and depending on him is a fantasy that inspires many women and men. With the help of safety rules, tools and inspiration, you can turn the fantasy into reality. We’ll tell you how you can integrate bondage games into your sex life, and what you need to do it.
BONDAGE: I KNOW HOW!
Anything involving the use of power, control and submission requires trust above all else. It is the alpha and omega of erotic games of domination and the fulfillment of submission fantasies. If you want to be tied up during sex or wish to tie up your partner yourself, you should discuss a few rules beforehand.
THE RULES OF EROTIC BONDAGE GAMES
Communication is the key to good sex, and this applies to more than just bondage. Your partner can’t read your mind and may not be able to interpret every twitch correctly. When something new is tried, lovers’ expectations are often not the same. It is often difficult for a dominant partner to predict how far he can go without causing severe pain or discomfort.
Here are a few rules that make bondage play safe:
- Discuss your inhibitions, fears, and desires in advance and share your fantasies in detail. This way your partner can understand what you mean, what you want and don’t want.
- Consider in advance which of you would like to take on the role of slave and which of you would like to take on the dominant role.
- Pre-agreed safe word ensures that your personal boundaries will not be violated. It can be any word. When it is spoken, the action must cease immediately.
- Exclude your neck from any binding game, as there is a risk of serious injury.
- Scissors should always be on hand so that if you feel unwell you can immediately and easily remove the ropes.
BONDAGE GAMES WITH SCARVES, TIES, AND SO ON
If you are inexperienced in using restraints during sex and want to carefully explore this area of pleasure, silk scarves and ties are more suitable for you.
An eye mask can also make for a very exciting bondage experience. You can start by tying your partner’s hands together. If he feels comfortable, they can be secured to, for example, a bed or other furniture. Alternatively, you can use special tools that are ideal for securing to a bed.
If you don’t have suitable furniture to fix your partner to, or if you want to make erotic play even more spicy, try a metal spacer. You can attach your bound hands or ankles to it. This tool allows you to use a variety of positions.
If you don’t like it, then nylon or leather binding straps are more suitable for restricting the freedom of movement of the submitting partner.
Handcuffs are not suitable for erotic bondage games. They can damage your wrists and cause discomfort. Unless you want to use them for policewoman and prisoner style role-playing games.
BONDAGE GAMES WITH ROPES, WHIPS AND ICE CUBES
Through the use of ropes, you will take bondage one step further. Many bondage lovers love the feel of rope on their skin. However, it should never be tied too tight.
Once the hands and possibly feet are tied, the submissive partner can be caressed, stroked, tickled or even punished. Ice cubes are also a popular means of provoking unusual sensations. If the games are to be a little tougher, whips, whips and floggers can be used.
Many fans of bondage and S&M adore rollers with micro needles. This toy excites the senses in a special way and is also perfect for beginners. You simply slide it over your partner’s skin and control pleasure and pain.
Of course, bondage games are much more interesting in an erotic outfit. How about seductive, black, lacy lingerie or sexy stockings?