Most women just melt from oral sex or cunnilingus. For them there is nothing more intimate than the caress of the tongue. Because of the great intimacy, oral sex often creates absolute trust.
However, not all women are stimulated by the same technique, and men are often prone to make gross mistakes that spoil what is a priori beautiful and desirable for every woman.
1. Wild licking.
The clitoris is very sensitive. If you get right down to business, it can be very arousing, but it’s usually best to proceed slowly. Caress and kiss her breasts, stomach and legs first. Be careful and figure out how much pressure you can apply to her clitoris with your tongue or fingers to make her feel comfortable.
Of course, it will depend on her arousal or mood. So you should watch her movements and sensations closely. If your tongue gets tired, instead of stopping, change the caresses. Use your fingers and tongue alternately. You can also connect your fingers while working with your tongue.
2. closer to the point
There are hardly any general recommendations that apply to the preferences of all women. A very important principle: Be determined and focused. Focus on what you are doing. No one wants to feel like they’re just being licked somewhere between the legs and drenched in saliva. Your warm tongue should pleasantly and gently caress your clitoris and vagina. But that doesn’t mean its location doesn’t matter!
3. Listen to her.
By her tension and moans you will gradually learn to understand what she likes. If she is hugging your head or wrapping her legs around you, she probably likes what you are doing. Let her lead you where she wants to go. If her body tenses up or she starts moaning louder, she may be about to cum.
The main rule is this: don’t overreact! Many men make the mistake of becoming so fast that they no longer get into the rhythm that brought a woman to orgasm, and she ends up not being able to reach it.
Women are often very pleased when a partner increases the pressure and speed shortly before orgasm, but in moderation and not at the expense of the tongue no longer touching the clitoris.
4. Don’t get hung up on orgasm.
Many men often try to bring a woman to orgasm as quickly as possible and then get disappointed when they don’t succeed. But women always notice their partner’s impatience. If you convey a sense of wanting to tick as soon as possible, you are unlikely to create the appropriate sexual tension, security and eroticism that turn many women on.
Unlike men, for women the path to orgasm is sometimes much more important than the goal itself. Take your time and caress her. She will be grateful to you.
5. Clip your fingernails!
When you fondle a woman orally, you will always use your fingers to touch her breasts, her legs or penetrate her vagina with them. Especially for the latter and not just for oral sex in general, it’s important to follow a simple rule: be sure to cut your nails!
Men often have angular nails. Of course, few men like to use a nail file. But if you bend your fingers up slightly in the vagina, even small nails can cause discomfort or pain. You can scratch sensitive genitals and injure them. Either way, the sensation from them will not be particularly pleasant. So taking care of your nails before sex is very important.
6. Talking about it
Talking about feelings and fantasies can be very satisfying and arousing. Most importantly, they can greatly improve your sex life. Let’s be honest: Women don’t always tell men what they really like in bed. Signals that may be clearly understood by women, such as increased body tension, are often not perceived or misinterpreted by men. Although there is a charm in seeking and experimenting, it is definitely worth talking about sex.
But please: not during oral sex! There’s nothing more unpleasant than constantly answering questions – do you like it, is it good here? Especially if there’s always a break for it.